Friend : relationship advice

 

There is some advice from Maddie Bruce + my opinion :

a) How to deal with jealous over friend?

- list 20 positive things about yourself : your honest, good friend, kind, trustworthy... think that maybe you have something they don't have. Maybe one of your friends is someone that cannot keep a secret but you can and people believe you more. Or maybe in silence you talented in cooking, who knows?? (You should find out a good spot on you!) And if they good in academic or sport, it's okay to be jealous over cleverness, high confidence, actives people. They can be your motivation to be as good like them. Believe in yourself!

b) what to do when your friend is down, upset, depressed??

- spent time with them! : I. chill them up. Maybe they don't want you to be there, she/he want to be alone.. but just... don't ignored your friend. Yea, everyone is stubborn. But believe me, deep down in their heart, they need you. They need someone can see through inside them, they did not being fine. You can chill them with chocolate, cake, movies, sweet things...
II. Say that how much she/he really means to you. Show them a compliment. With this positive words from you, maybe she/he will feel a little bit better.
III. Let them know that you're not gonna judge them. They can trust you. But, if it serious and really serious you can try to talk with one of your friend's family that you can trust.

c) what to do when your ex-friend doing horrible things to you??

- Ignore it. Leave them be : They might be angry and lashing out on social media like twitter, facebook.. they make themselve like stup*d. If it getting worse, you can do report or tell your parents or someone you trust to stop them. Actually, this is can ruin your imaged and make people think negative and curios to social with you. But, for me.. you should discuss with that person what she/he's really problem and what you do wrong. Make a confession between you guys so that both side will (hope) satisfied.

I too have experienced this situation and I do make the way I wrote it. And it work! We still count 'a friend' because... maybe we just meant to be friend. =)

d) What would you do if have a lot friendship/group member but have an argument with people in that group??

e) Is it possible to have 'awkward friend'?

- Yes, it is. Malay people say, 'Tiru macam saya...' ahaha.. all that person doing is copying your style. Everything you do, that person will do. Everything you wear, that person will.. try to wear. Even if that person not so close to you, but it's still... ergh! Annoying, right?

f) what to do if you have friends but you don't get invited anywhere with the group and you just left?

- Just think that maybe.. their think you can't/won't come along, they might think you busy... or they just being immature. You can ask them if you want to know the truth behind this. Why you didn't get invited?? Just ask them to be honest. If there's, find another friend. Why would we stick to people if they don't want to have some fun with us, right??

g) how to deal with Fake Friends??

- Fake friends is where you giving, giving, giving and you received nothing back. So, make sure that it is mutually benefit friendship. Just be a cool kids because Echosmith say, "All the cool kids, they seem to fit in." 😆😆😆

h) what to do if your best friend get a boyfriend and...?

- Maddie suggest, just spent time with other friends.

And many more question and suggestion from her. Hope this video give you some knowledges and open your mind so that you know how to deal with friendship. It's just a random question and not specific one. Hope you guys enjoy! And more thing, don't you think her fluent remind you of Disney Movie such as Cinderella?

keep calm and luv friendship, NuNa =3